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婚外恋都是七年之痒惹的祸

2017-03-08 00:25 来源: 情感资讯网

今天对于小钟来说,注定是不好过的一天,因为他将要和两个很重要的人离别,一个是原本打算跟他白头偕老的妻子,一个是他十分疼爱的儿子。我想这是他第一次体会到这种情感,但是一切都追悔莫及。

时间要追溯到2年之前,那时候小钟跟妻子相敬如宾,他们有一个活泼可爱的儿子,日子过得平淡却很温馨。和众多夫妻一样,小钟和妻子也迎来了他们婚后的第一个七年,都说七年是夫妻关系的一轮大考,但是小钟却没有交给妻子一份满意的答卷。小钟似乎已经厌倦了平淡的生活,就连性生活都像是完成任务,没有一点激情。

不速之客韩雨的出现,彻底打破了这个小家庭的宁静,让小钟平静的生活起了波澜。韩雨是小钟的大学同学,两人之间有过一段美好的恋情,但终究抵不过现实,毕业后两人劳燕分飞。再次见面是在10年后的一次同学聚会,那时候两人都已各自成家立业,再次见面让原本就有好感的两人,在聚会的那天晚上借着酒精发生了性关系。

尝到偷腥甜头的两人,从此一发不可收拾,经常背着各自的家庭私会,在一起互诉衷肠,抱怨他们对平淡婚姻的不满。小钟和韩雨甚至萌生过同时放弃现在的家庭,然后组建一个新的家庭的想法,可是每当冷静的时候,理智又会战胜邪恶。于是,这种不明不白的地下关系一直持续了2年。

直到妻子亲眼看见在大街上“你侬我侬”的小钟和韩雨,这个秘密才被彻底揭穿。是啊,第一个七年就已经疟疾斑斑,以后还怎么奢望这个男人守住一个又一个七年,原本温馨幸福的家庭,就断送给了“七年之痒”。

“七年之痒”婚姻关系危机重重

每一对夫妻都会经历第一个七年,在大多数人眼里七年是一个坎。婚姻到了第七年,夫妻双方可能会因为婚姻生活的平淡规律而感到索然无味,因此需要去外界寻求一点刺激,于是婚外情、偷腥等现象屡见不鲜。

“痒”就是不舒服,这个考验也是感情中的转折点,一旦迈过了这个坎,婚姻就能向良性方向发展;反之,则可能导致婚姻感情解体、分崩离析。七年这个特殊的阶段,很多夫妻都会有莫名的紧张,即便感情稳固的家庭,也存在或多或少的危机感。其实,只要感情牢靠,不要说七年,就是七十年也不会变;如果感情不牢靠,哪怕是七个月也有可能痒起来。

第一个七年如何挽救婚姻危机

小夫妻面对“七年之痒”不要一味的担心,一定要主动寻求办法化解。首先,夫妻之间每隔一段时间要坦诚地谈一次心,主要问对方怎样改善两人的关系,通常会发现对方很希望得到这样的一个机会;其次,提高生活情趣,不妨抽出时间共同营造二人世界的温馨浪漫,还可以互相赠送一些小礼物,使对方心情愉悦;最后,经常和对方聊一些家常,完善和巩固爱情关系,还离不开关怀体贴以及细致入微的性生活。(文/小布丁)



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