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职场新人如何学会控制自己的情绪

2017-05-01 12:03 来源: 情感资讯网

  注意抱怨的场合

  不要见人就发泄情绪

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  发泄情绪时,要多利用非正式场合,少使用正式场合,尽量与上司和同事私下交谈,避免公开提意见和表示不满。这样做不仅能给自己留有回旋余地,即使提出的意见出现失误,也不会有损自己在公众心目中的形象,还有利于维护上司的尊严,不至于使别人陷入被动和难堪。

  注意抱怨的场合

  抱怨的方式同样重要

  不要见人就发泄情绪

  只对有办法解决问题的人发泄不满,是最重要的原则。向同事或毫无裁定权的人发泄情绪,只能使你得到更多人的厌烦。解决方式是:直接去找你可能见到的最有影响力的一位上司,然后心平气和地与上司讨论。假使这个方案仍不管用,你可以向更高层次的上司求助。

  控制你的情绪

  如果你怒气冲冲地找上司表示你对他的安排或做法不满,很可能把他也给惹火了。所以,即使感到不公平、不满、委屈,也应当尽量先使自己心平气和下来再说。过于情绪化将无法清晰地说明你的理由,而且还使得对方误以为你是对他本人而不是对他的安排不满,如此你就应该另寻出路了。

  尽可能以赞美的话语作为情绪述说的开端。这样一方面能降低对方的敌意,同时更重要的是,你的赞美已经事先为对方设定了一个遵循的标准。记住,听你情绪述说的人也许与你的事情并不相关,甚至不知道情况为何,如果你一开始就大发雷霆只会激起对方敌对、自卫的反应。

  只对有办法解决问题的人发泄不满,是最重要的原则。向同事或毫无裁定权的人发泄情绪,只能使你得到更多人的厌烦。解决方式是:直接去找你可能见到的最有影响力的一位上司,然后心平气和地与上司讨论。假使这个方案仍不管用,你可以向更高层次的上司求助。

  尽可能以赞美的话语作为情绪述说的开端。这样一方面能降低对方的敌意,同时更重要的是,你的赞美已经事先为对方设定了一个遵循的标准。记住,听你情绪述说的人也许与你的事情并不相关,甚至不知道情况为何,如果你一开始就大发雷霆只会激起对方敌对、自卫的反应。

  发泄情绪时,要多利用非正式场合,少使用正式场合,尽量与上司和同事私下交谈,避免公开提意见和表示不满。这样做不仅能给自己留有回旋余地,即使提出的意见出现失误,也不会有损自己在公众心目中的形象,还有利于维护上司的尊严,不至于使别人陷入被动和难堪。

  抱怨的方式同样重要

  如果你怒气冲冲地找上司表示你对他的安排或做法不满,很可能把他也给惹火了。所以,即使感到不公平、不满、委屈,也应当尽量先使自己心平气和下来再说。过于情绪化将无法清晰地说明你的理由,而且还使得对方误以为你是对他本人而不是对他的安排不满,如此你就应该另寻出路了。

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  职场新人如何学会控制自己的情绪

  控制你的情绪

  职场新人如何学会控制自己的情绪



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